This topic may seem a little strange but on rare occasions we have to attend to people who drop in without letting us know beforehand. So the first question is if we are faced with this situation, what should our reaction be?
Our reaction would probably be one of annoyance because it was not the right time, or confused as we do not know what they want.
Before we reveal to them how we may truly feel at first, we should remember that world is like a mirror. You smile and it smiles back at you. When you frown it frowns back at you. Consequently if anybody turns up at your door out of trouble or just for fun and for whatever reason do not let your feelings of uneasiness be apparent to them.
It is always positive to be stable and show that you are always in control of surprises and it’s happy to be with people who do not care much if they are intentionally or unintentionally trying to upset you. It is so unpredictable because we could be in a similar position someday so it is always good to be composed and inviting.
An adage has a saying that fish and guests smell in three days but we need to be quite patient with what goes on around us and be warm and welcoming.
Hot tip: Do not do unto others what you do not like to be done to you.
Cheers!
Friday, August 27, 2010
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